In a recent interview, Nollywood actress
Genevieve Nnaji speaks up on why she remains
unmarried several years after the delivery of her
daughter.
The mother of one said her greatest fear is
divorce. She planned to stay married for long.
Genevieve also raised the issue of forgiveness in
marriage and talked about her ideal man.
Interview excerpt:
“As for marriage, it’s every woman’s dream to get
married. We can’t lie to ourselves. I do want to
get married but overtime I have had opportunities
to get married but I realize getting married is not
actually the problem. The problem is finding
someone you are compatible with because…
“I’m born Catholic, I’m raised Catholic, I don’t
believe in divorce. If I get married, I really want to
stay married and staying married is not an easy
thing. It means you are completely in tune with
your partner. It means you’ve found your soul
mate because you’ll have to be able to stand a
lot of disappointments that would definitely come
but then again you have to learn to forgive.
“For me, before I choose a partner I have to ask
myself if this is the kind of person I would be
willing to forgive no matter what when the time
comes. If the answer is no, then that person is
wrong for me. That person is not the person you
want to get married to. If you know you can look
into someone’s eyes and say yes, this is the most
you can do to me. If you actually cheat on me the
first time, I can find it in my heart to forgive you.
If you can answer that question honestly and
truthfully to yourself then you’ll know if that
person is your partner or not.
“So compatibility is the word aside from the
physical attributes that have to go with it. I need
to be comfortable because I’m a woman and I’m
used to a certain lifestyle.”
Genevieve Nnaji who turned 35 on the 3rd of May
2014 has been linked with several men in the past
including D’banj.
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